This week on Worth The Wait, Sarah and I kick off another round of Fuck That Guy Palooza—and this one’s a doozy. We start with a listener letter about a woman who put together a thoughtful care package for a guy she’d been seeing for two months… only to get a text back that basically said, “Cool stuff, but calm down, Fatal Attraction.” We break down whether that kind of response is emotionally unavailable, avoidant, or just plain rude—and why so many women internalize shame when men show zero empathy.
Then we dive into a second letter from someone dating a guy who’s “nice” but totally shut off emotionally. We talk about how to tell the difference between avoidant behavior and a man who’s simply not invested—and why consistency is the key.
Plus, we react to a TikTok video from a man teaching people (read: women) how to date intentionally. Shockingly, we agreed with him. I even share how I’ve built an entire workbook around dating clarity, compatibility, and decision trees—because knowing what you want before you start swiping makes all the difference.
It's a funny, fiery, and feminist episode full of insight, validation, and reminders not to settle for the bare minimum.
Subscribe, listen, and remember: we're not fixing men anymore. Those days are over.
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